How do I do my first pull-up?
Work on the pieces: hanging from a bar, pulling your shoulder blades down, slow lowering from the top (negatives), rows, and band-assisted pull-ups. Train these two or three times a week and add a little each time.
Most women need weeks to months, depending on starting strength and body weight. Being patient and consistent matters more than trying to force a rep.
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